Thursday Surprise

Yesterday M1 messaged me asking if we could sit down and talk about them getting Baby K back. I said I heard her on Sunday that she was going to do it and reminded her the form she needed was a change in circumstances. I explained I heard her, I get it and am not... Continue Reading →

Explaining Racism

My two kids are intellectually challenged. Despite their age they function at approximately 10 years old. The events of the news have impacted them and so we have to talk about it. It is hard to explain why folks who are not white are hurt by people in charge more often. It doesn't make sense... Continue Reading →

M1 at it Again

M1 and boytoy had Baby K from Saturday to Sunday. They told me they were dropping off Baby K between 2:30 and 3pm. Ok its fine I was home doing yardwork anyway. N and I were tearing down a fence and M2 was mowing, we were having a basically good day overall. Then of course... Continue Reading →

Fire Pits and Fun

Apparently M1 just broke up with her newest boyfriend. Tonight initially boytoy said M1 wanted time alone and he had to work could I take Baby S overnight. Did I want to no but I don't want him to lose his job because my daughter goes off on these tangents of "I don't wanna parent... Continue Reading →

Plants in the yard

Taking a break from the stress and the chaos that is our world. I took in some plants to refocus myself. I have a huge area of these in my backyard behind the house. The hosta under the apple tree Not sure what these are but they are in my flower bed Close up of... Continue Reading →

Texting Nightmares

You posted that you would pour a bucket of ice water over your boyfriend's head if you got 100 comments. You are married what boyfriend? We are separated Yes we’re married but that’s because we can’t afford a divorce. We went our own ways because our relationship is very toxic and we need to work... Continue Reading →

Weekend Oddities

We had a weird weekend this weekend. I decided to take the kids back to the beach because it was warm and something to do. Saturday was a bit cooler but not awful and the water was not freezing this time. They spent a lot of time in the sand as it was tough to... Continue Reading →

Memorial Day

The real reason for Memorial Day I lost two friends in Iraqi Freedom. My Commander Phil and his Operations Lieutenant Lou. The deaths hit me hard as they were a fratricide. The one who committed the crime has also died at this point in time. He was my driver (Officers rarely drive) and a long... Continue Reading →

Birthday Wishes

Tomorrow is Memorial Day a typically sad day for me as I remember my two fallen friends Phil and Lou. I will have my daughter and my BFF over tomorrow for a cook out and I will celebrate with my family. On Wednesday though it will be both my BFF's birthday and my niece's birthday.... Continue Reading →

River Antics

It was sooo hot today. OK maybe it was me but I was quite warm. I wanted to have the girls come down to the river with me so we could have some fun. N refused. She had stolen from me earlier today and I caught her so of course she is not going to... Continue Reading →

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